I’m Kate Spring, a dating and relationship coach from Canada and I’ve got a pretty serious topic to discuss today, one that I want to jump right into and that is how to get your ex-girlfriend back. A lot of people have contacted me seeking more guidance with this. I have a problem, they say, and I’m here to help!
Just before we get started, if you have any questions, please leave them in the comments below, and I’ll get back to you, personally, as soon as I can.
The first thing that is important to understand and acknowledge is why your ex left you. There are so many reasons, and the first thing you need to do is seriously look at the relationship and take ownership for your actions or lack thereof.
Here’s a quick list of common reasons why couples breakup:
-poor communication skills
-being complacent and routine.
-taking your partner for granted.
-inability to grow and evolve together
-want different things
But the main reason why most couples split up is due to a loss of emotional attraction. As you can see, there are many reasons why relationships end, and your ex might be lying about the reasons as to why she broke up with you. But I would say that the main reason why most couples split is due to a loss of emotional attraction. A loss of emotional attraction is not sexual. But sexual and emotional attraction are what distinguishes a romantic relationship from a friendship.