Hey Guys! I’m Kate Spring, Dating and relationship coach. I’ve been asked this question a lot lately about why women lose interest in men. I’ve thought long and hard over this and talked to my girlfriends and also tried to remember why I, personally, have lost interest in men in the past. And I think I’ve come up with a few reasons as to why women start to lose interest in the initial stages of a budding romance.
Ok, so, I think one reason why a woman loses interest in a man is if her rose-colored glasses fall off. And she realizes that she doesn’t appreciate some of his manners. One of those reasons can be rudeness. Rude to customer service people, to her, to anyone, really. If this is the case, and your rudeness is an unsuccessful attempt to be funny, I might suggest you work on a type of humor that doesn’t bring people down in order to get a laugh.
I know there is that old saying that nice guys finish last, but don’t be mistaken as to how far being kind to your love interest will go. Having an ability to make light of situations and not get attached to your expectations will work wonders for you, I promise.