Hey guys, my name is Kate Spring, and I’m going to share with you some tips on how to approach a woman you like. There are many methods out there from cheesy pick-up lines to aggressive peacocking, but that’s not what I have for you here.
In my experience, the most effective way a man has caught my attention is by shifting the focus onto me and making me feel like I am the most interesting person in the world, or at least in the room. I can’t give you one simple recipe to make a woman instantly be into you. However, I can, from personal experience, help you learn to approach a woman in a way that she will want to continue a conversation with you.
Here are three ways to accomplish this: Be light, be curious, and be confident. Before we get started, if you have any questions, please leave them in the comments below, and I’ll be sure to get back to you as soon as I can.
Here we go, my first piece of advice is to be light. People, like moths, are attracted to light. And I’m not talking about holding a lamp up to every girl you like. What I mean is be light hearted, and don’t take things too seriously. The first interactions are crucial for creating a positive impression that leaves her wanting more of you.
Women are generally attracted to men who aren’t overly critical of other people. And men who are comfortable enough in their own skin that they can laugh at themselves. Humor is a huge part of attraction. Now, I’m not saying you have to be the next Jerry Seinfeld, but some semblance of a sense of humour is very attractive in men. Laughter also alleviates stress in any first meeting jitters.